Friday, February 12, 2010

Mother In Law Overbearing/ Pregnancy Were You Disappointed With The Grandparents' Response When You Announced Your Pregnancy?

Were you disappointed with the grandparents' response when you announced your pregnancy? - mother in law overbearing/ pregnancy

I knew that my dominant (as it is literally a foot high and a hundred pounds more than I expected Lol) mother to take her and her husband live with me and my poor child, probably two weeks after the birth if they can tell me what I do is wrong, sucks all the new baby, etc. She confirmed this fear as soon as I told you she was pregnant. I knew that my parents are happy, I'm sarcastic and angry. (When referring to the morning sickness has my father, I do not want to hear what this means for you. "Things like that.) Number of measures have also remained true to my expected of them. At this moment I feel like when it is time for the child I have left the damn country, and Leah, isI do not see coming and going, no trace!

11 comments:

hippie chick said...

wow, it's terrible for his family, to behave! A newborn should be a joyous occasion! I agree, if they want it now, I do not want all babies are born.

rxing said...

If I had my son, my mother looked out the window and loads. was wide and has since become. Hands are very friendly people. My parents are loving and attentive. It seems that you ignore havet hjust and the foot down on visitors and guests and commentary.

Courtney R said...

Well, my brother just said my wife's family that he and his wife expecting their fourth, so I know now that when I say that we are not as important Preggers. I am a little sad because they have claimed to be a big problem ... but it is not.

marinewi... said...

I let her stepmother is not anywhere near you. I did not need your help, but thanks for the offer.

stevey_3... said...

IAM sorry that she went to this.i face through it. tell your mother in law, although the idea that it would be better if a routine before they bombed used by visitors to appriciate. and feel their parents, even when you shit, I do not know. OT or keep your best friend. You do not need this kind of stress. You should rest and enjoy her pregnancy. Wish you good luck and congratulations.

Miss Sunshine said...

I can feel your pain completely. Tell your mother-in-law can not remain so long just because you have a new baby and on the street. If you do not ... her husband is. Your mother .... it can not handle it.

And my mother told me that having an abortion when I told him I was pregnant. She did not * really * ... simply because it is my fourth child and I just had a miscarriage in the 2nd Quarter, a month before she got pregnant again.

He shakes his head * * I hope you have a normal pregnancy ... after that you have all the joys of grandparents who are struggling for the holidays with the new baby.

Good luck ... and you can only ever tell anyone when in work. What? We do not think they were too tired with the baby to term. (and their parents will probably say that one can not complain there either) I'm sorry, honey.

ZeroChar... said...

If you do not want your mother to be there, you with the respect to try to tell him. I know that my mother will also get one or two weeks when I my baby in May, and is sometimes a bit authoritarian, but I did together with her beautiful, it's a little crazy sometimes gets. Even though I know they want to run the template for a week, I have no doubt that this will be a big help, because I know that it will ultimately do to help. Perhaps you might be tempted to suggest that a week is really all the help you need? The week is over before you know, you're so busy, and to his new baby will hardly notice it's there. It is also necessary to talk with your husbandthis. It has the ability to act as liaison between them and maybe, if he understands how it feels to have more support. Maybe you can try to say something ... returns suggest that there is support there, but not arrogant, and who takes time with her baby. Whatever happens, for 2 weeks will not last forever, and you have your house and your baby at any time. Hang in there.

stephare... said...

Oh, my God, this sucks! Is there a way you can move your trip to MIL you may contact with your baby? My best friend went there and does more harm than good. He felt that I needed to listen to foreigners and to hand washing in addition Nag always people, the things to be minimal after using the toilet if he had to bear the child. I know you can not say that you want your MIL there, but her husband can not say what? I'm lucky, I have had all to myself, and I wonder when we are ready for visitors. That was good because they had to take over my instincts, and I learned to do things, so I do not (someone standing over me telling me what) do. I feel for you, good luckTry not to let his opinions disturb the family.

biminibi... said...

My mother is Baby Daddy looked up and said, "Well, at least we now have a small white" (his first grandchild is mixed). Is not it terrible?

Punky said...

First, your father, who has a soul? How can a woman pregnant! I can not believe how sorry non-load bearing his family, it does me! When her mother, she invites to live with you, I've only cut in the bud very quickly! Good luck to you!

Mommy to GAIB!!! said...

I'm in the same boat with you ... Always believe in yourself ... When my husband and I told him I was pregnant, his response was: "I'm too young to be a garndma. He has now decided he will come for a week after the baby is born ... I told my husband that after this she had to go home. I'm just one minutes from my mother, so if you need it, I'll go or come to me ... My MIL is in the course of a life obsessed with his son and I finally got, not what I say.

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